Ways To Make Putting on a Condom Fun
Few lovers talk about ways to help each other stay aroused when putting on a condom. Here are a few possible approaches. (It won’t take much effort to change she-and-he into he-and-he if you’d like.)
ANTICIPATION: Slip a condom into your partner’s pocket followed by a welcome kiss, fingertips rubbing over the front of his or her pants, and a few words about what you are looking forward to.
VISUAL APPROACH: Some women say they find it arousing to watch a guy put on a condom and stroke himself for a while. Or if a man finds it arousing to watch his partner masturbate, they can try arranging themselves so he can watch her indulging herself while he puts on the condom.
ORAL APPROACH: If he is turned on by giving her oral sex, they can arrange their bodies so she can put the condom on him while his face is between her legs. Or he can put the condom on while she kisses his testicles. She shouldn’t get saliva on the base of his penis, as this is where the condom needs to grip. Also, putting on a condom with your lips is a bad idea, as it’s easy to leave tiny nicks in the condom with your teeth.
TALKING DIRTY: If the couple finds dirty talk to be arousing, she can be telling him what she wants him to do with his penis, or what she wants him to do with it, as she’s putting on the condom, or he can tell her what’s going to happen once he gets the condom on, etc.
GRINDING: She can be rubbing her vulva against his thigh as she’s putting the condom on his penis.
HAND ACTION: Putting on a condom can be more of a turn-on if she begins by stroking his penis in ways that he likes and plays with his testicles, then opens the condom package, but puts it down and strokes and caresses, some more, then puts the condom on, and then plays with his penis some more.
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For our YouTube condom videos, including "How to Put a Condom On," "Why Condoms Break," "Condoms and Lube," and "Condoms-Getting The Right Fit and Feel."
